Young woman in brief clothing shares her disbelief after man ābargesā into female-only sauna and refuses to budge: āAm I the a**hole for asking him to leave?ā
A Sydney influencer has recounted an āuncomfortableā situation with a strangerMilly Bannister, 25, and her friend were enjoying sitting in a female-only saunaĀ But 25-year-old claims a man ābargedā in to use the facilityĀ When she him to leave she claims the man got angry and refused
A woman has recounted the moment she felt āuncomfortableā after a man ābargedā into a female-only sauna.
Milly Bannister, from Sydney, posted a video explaining how in her building thereās both male and female saunas for āsafety and privacyā.Ā
But on this occasion when Milly and her friend were in the women-only sauna wearing ābrief clothingā, she claims a man ābargedā in to use the facility.Ā
When the 25-year-old asked him to leave she claims the man got angry and refused.
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Sydney influencerĀ Milly Bannister (left) claims a man (right) ābargedā into a female-only sauna because itās āhotterā than the male sauna. The 25-year-old and her friend asked the man to leave but he refused, so they did after feeling uncomfortableĀ
āOkay, so Iām at the pool in my building complex that I have a pass to, and there are a couple of saunas that are in here ā one of them is male and one of them is a female,ā Milly said in the video.Ā
āAnd of course, I would prefer to use the female because Iām in brief clothing, Iām sweating, Iām sitting with my girlfriend having a conversation, you know, youāre in a very enclosed space. And youāre sweating, itās very personal and intimate.
āSo my friend and I were sitting in the female sauna right here when this man barges in without asking and sits right smack in the middle.āĀ
She claims the man said he preferred to use the female sauna because āit gets hotterā than the male sauna.
MillyĀ posted a video explaining how in her building thereās both male and female saunas for āsafety and privacyā
In the video the man can seen wearing only speedos and is heard speaking in an angry tone.
Milly added text over the clip claiming the man said she āshouldnāt assume heās not gayā and should be allowed to use the sauna ā she also titled the video āmaleĀ privilege checkā.Ā Ā
āThe question is, am I the a**hole for asking the man to leave because I donāt feel comfortable in a female-only sauna to have a man there, whom I donāt know,ā Milly asked.Ā
In the comments Milly said they left the sauna because the man ārefused to leaveā and that sheāll mention the incident to the building manager.
The video has since exceeded more than 121,000 views and other TikTok uses were also shocked.Ā
āThe fact that he didnāt leave and fought you on this is a scary red flag,ā one person wrote in the comments.Ā
āFemale-only sauna = female only. If it had been unisex or unspecified it would be different, but the sign literally says female only,ā another wrote.Ā
A third added: āYou did the right thing! Good on you for being brave in that situation.ā
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